Do you want the change?

Change is constant in our life. I'm not talking about physics.

Picture this situation in your mind:
A teenager is roller skating , a young man is cycling and an old man is jogging in a park.

The teenager thought himself ,"How good will it be if I'm older like that adult over there? In that way , I would be able to be more free to do whatever I want without anyone to monitar me."

The adult thought himself , "How I wish I can be like that old man , retired from work and have a lot of free times. Besides being away from stress , jobs and bills , I can do lots of things I like."

The old man thought himself , "If I can be like that teenager , I would have reach that bench over there earlier! "

Observations : We always grumble and wish to have what we don't have.


So you see , there are bound to be changes in your life be it moving to a new environment , new relationships and bigger responsibilties. Accept the fact that you , too , need to adapt to new things and there is no benefits for you grumbling and hoping things to get over with as soon as possible. Time flies. It won't swing back like what a simple pendulum does.

You still need to face it one day even if you run away from it. You're still running away from it even if you're hiding it. Thus , the best way to face problems is to face it. Problems get bigger if you solve it last minute.

You never know when a changes happen be it a good thing or a bad thing to you. Get ready for changes even some come unexpectedly to you. You don't want to regret later on for nothing.

Seriously , I'm missing embacy. I miss the times being there on saturday nights. What to do? We gotta move one. No looking backs.